GCSE Results Day: Expert advice for Parents on handling disappointment

GSCE Results: High Speed Training

As thousands of students across the country prepare to receive their GCSE results on Thursday, August 21st, one expert is offering guidance to parents whose children may not achieve the grades they had hoped for.

While results day is a cause for celebration for many, it can also bring panic and disappointment for those who have underperformed.

In a press release made available to The Giste, Dr Richard Anderson, Head of Learning and Development at online training provider High Speed Training, is urging parents to prepare for the possibility of a difficult day and to be ready to support their children.

“Whatever results students are faced with, remembering that each individual has experienced their own, personal journey to get there is vital,” said Dr Anderson. He stressed the importance of celebrating achievements and reminding students that their work ethic in challenging times is something to be proud of.

He also cautioned against using negative language, advising parents to avoid questions like, “why didn’t you revise harder?” “If they’re already disappointed in their performance, these questions will only serve to undermine their self-confidence and make them feel worse,” he said.

Dr Anderson laid out a series of practical steps for parents to consider if their child’s grades fall short of expectations.

1. Consider a Re-mark

One immediate option is to request a re-mark of the exam paper. This is particularly relevant for students who scored a grade 3 in a compulsory subject like maths or English, as a minimum of a grade 4 is required to avoid re-taking the subject at A-level.

Dr Anderson noted that while there is a charge for the service, many schools will cover the cost. He also advised that it is not worth pursuing a re-mark for a grade less than a 3, as it is highly unlikely to increase to a 4.

2. Contact the College or Sixth Form

Parents should prioritise contacting their child’s chosen college or sixth form. According to Dr Anderson, many institutions are willing to be flexible. “It’s possible that they will offer your child a place on their chosen course, with conditions relating to performance or re-taking key GCSEs. They may also offer them a place on a similar course,” he explained.

3. Explore Alternative Career Paths

For students who believe their career path is no longer an option, Dr Anderson advises them to reassess their plans. He noted that there is not one single linear path to success. “It’s possible that your child can still get into their chosen career path by going straight into employment, or by taking qualifications that aren’t A-levels,” he said.

4. Seek Further Support

Finally, Dr Anderson stressed that there is no need to rush into a decision. He encouraged families to utilise their existing support networks, including their child’s school and trained careers advisors, who can provide a personalised plan of action.

“Take time to let feelings and emotions die down so that you’re both able to see the bigger picture,” he concluded. “There’s no immediate rush to make a decision, regardless of the outcome you’ve been faced with.”

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